"Texts and Emails Are Ruining My Life!!!" Latest book is live!

Are you addicted to texts and email?  Does your family complain that you're spending more time looking at your phone than talking with them?  Do you take your phone into the bathroom so you can quickly reply to texts and email?

There are solutions to ridding yourself from these problems and they're addressed in my latest book:  "Texts and Emails Are Ruining My Life!"

One of the biggest problems with texting and emails is the fact that they are one-dimensional.  When you send a text or an email, the recipient can't see your face or body language, which can cause an issue if your language is misunderstood.  Sending what you think is funny may be offensive to someone else, especially if they can't hear your voice in their heads and know what you mean.

For example, a business man went to China for the first time, on business.  He had communicated with his Chinese counterparts by email to set up their meeting but had never spoken to them or met them in person.  He texted those he was supposed to meet and asked where they were to meet; he couched the language as a joke, one he and his friends would have understood and laughed.  Unfortunately, those he texted didn't get the joke and thought he was making fun of them.  Needless to say, the joke ultimately was on the American business man - he lost the account.

Could he have avoided the problem?  Certainly.  There are three questions to ask before sending a text:  Is it necessary?  Is it simple and understandable?  Can it be done better on the phone or in person?

Other topics covered include how to tell if you're addicted, text and email truths, getting yourself rebalanced and keeping up once you get there.

Get your copy of "Texts and Emails Are Ruining My Life!" at Amazon.com !!

Writing For My Life - New Book Announcements!

I haven't posted in a while, not because I have nothing to say, but because I have too much to say.  As a freelance writer, I spend most of my days writing for other people - putting their ideas and dreams into readable form.  And when you write for others, sometimes, your own thoughts get lost.

When my most recent contract ended, I was at a loss - what was I going to write today?  I had to look for more work, but while I was between gigs, I decided I would write - just write.  The result?  Two new books.

My best friend teases me all the time, that she's the brawn and I'm the brains of the operation.  She's a retired firefighter, now living in New York, working on a large volunteer construction project; I'm so proud of her.  I wish I had the talent or the health to be able to do what she does.  I can't lift, walk, stand or do anything that requires any physical strength.  I wouldn't have the first idea about driving a forklift, something at which she excels.  So I'm consigned to sit and write.

Julie laughed when I told her I was going to write a book while between jobs.  "I don't know anyone else who would just sit down and decide to write a book while trying to find work."  We're quite a pair.

Anyway, the result of this period of forced non-working is that I've written my second children's book, which will ultimately be part of a childrens' book series called, "The Grandma Adventures."  This book is "Grandma's Alphabet," a simple alphabet book for toddlers, designed to be read with an adult and encourages conversation.  My beta readers love it and I've started a Publishizer campaign to help raise money to have it professionally illustrated.  No one wants to see what my drawings might be.

The second book came as the result of a conversation about my email management book, "Help!  My Email Is Ruling My Life!"  The book was originally intended to help new managers get a grip on their email, which explodes when one goes from being managed to managing.  Things have changed so much just since the book was originally written in 2012, to the point where everyone needs help not just with email, but also with texting.  What is the etiquette of texting?  How many texts in a row are too many?  So I decided it was time to refocus my original book and go with something fit for anyone, not just those in business.  The title is still being worked out and beta readers have given us some really great feedback.

We'll post more as we get closer to publication.  In the meantime, thank you so much for your support.  Can't wait for everyone to see what's next!